I’ve posted about the story that I hate my friend after traveling with her but still have to live with her for at least 1 year. Well, two days back home and I already can see how horrifying this experience will be.
Today I woke up with an extreme pain throughout my body and later got a fever. I let her know immediately and kindly asked her if she has any ibuprofen at home. Her first reaction was not asking how I am feeling but “do you have Covid?” I was like ok I’ll get a Covid test kit via delivery. Then she didn’t say anything.
I then waited for her to come home for the ibuprofen. Did the test and told her I was negative. She got home, definitely did not think of me and began to play with her cat. I had to step out of my room (which I don’t want to since I’m sick) and asked her again for help.
Most of the day has passed now. She only minded her own business and did not bother to ask me once how am I feeling, did I feel better, do I need anything else, etc. Even her boyfriend who was at the apartment asked and at least pretend to care. Her? Not a single word.
I’m sick to my stomach rn. I’m still having a fever (38.5c/101f) and am struggling. My boyfriend and my parents are in other countries hence they could not offer me a helping hand. I hate my friend so much and honestly want to confront her selfish behaviors right the f now. But I don’t know how to confront her. I don’t want to be seen as clingy, and I could imagine her reaction would not be kind.
Don’t be friend with people like this who has no empathy but require other to.
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People aren’t against you, they are for themselves.
Take you for example, do you really think your roommate is a bitch for her actions? Or do you just (self-servingly) want her to give you more attention bc you are going through something? If so Maybe you can communicate that to her more explicitly. Bc no one is ever obligated to care, if she’s willing to you can consider yourself lucky to have her support. If not I say it’s not worth your mental health to worry about her selfish perspective or behavior. Let it roll off your shoulder for your own sake rn. Just focus on getting fluids and rest.