I had sex with older woman today and I have
Two questions:
1. During the action (during doggy and missionary she complained that it’s hurt – but she obviously been with other guys (it wasn’t that tight) why’s that?
2. That leads me to my second question I didn’t feel much (is it because of the condom and the fact that the pussy was like kinda loose?
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Virgin or not, certain positions can have some pain, and it could be for a varied amount of reasons.. Going to deep, hitting the cervix etc.
And yes it’s possible that those 2 things is why you didn’t feel much.
You just had sex for the first time so you can’t say it was loose when it’s the only one you’ve experienced.
Doggy can shorten the vagina to the point that you don’t have to be hung to punch a cervix.
You possibly didn’t feel much because she was turned on and very wet, and you may be used to a tighter and less smooth sensation eg jacking off with your hand.
You wouldn’t feel much if you used a condom that didn’t fit your penis. The FAQ section about erection issues includes a link to a condom sizing chart. You should also make usre that you’re using condoms correctly. [https://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual_health/condom_basics_a_users_manual](https://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual_health/condom_basics_a_users_manual)
Re 1: Angle is incredibly important. In any position, too much pressure “downwards” or towards her back can cause tearing.
Re 2: Condoms are a huge variable here. I have good luck with Skyn brand. Trojan and Durex we’re not good for sensation. If you are having a sensitivity problem, avoid condoms that claim to improve endurance as they contain a mild numbing agent.
So from what I understood the angels weren’t right so my penis hit the wrong spot? I need to learn about it
Vaginal looseness or tightness has no relation to how many people a person has been with. That’s a slut-shaming myth that you’d do well to stop believing.
Sore penetration can happen for a lot of different reasons, but the most common one is that she wasn’t turned on enough and/or you weren’t using enough lube. Take more time to turn her on before penetration next time.
You can try looking into thinner/“ultra-sensitive” condoms and may also want to put a drop of lube into the condom before you put it on to increase sensitivity/pleasure.