Dear Men Over 30, How and When Did you find Love?

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2. I was 32 and my 25 year old coworker started hitting on me.

3. I met my wife online several years ago. Met up for coffee and it just worked.

4. met randomly at denny’s late one night, love appears when you stop looking for it and don’t try to force it

5. I didn’t

6. I started dating my wife at 31.

7. Went to school with her at 12 but met up after matching on Tinder at 22.

   Married at 25 and first kid at 27, going on 6 years married now and a second kid 6 months ago

8. She found me. Contacted me online through a mutual friend.

   I joke with her that she snuck into my DMs.

9. I was 25, we met at graduate school. I neither of us were looking for love, but we bonded rather intensely. Lots of people around us did — and I think that environment is conducive to finding matches. A bunch of folks with similar intelligence levels, similar interests, and same age.

10. We met through a mutual interest–a choir in which we both sang. Started dating, got engaged, just celebrated our third anniversary.

11. I haven’t yet, only love I have is myself, my family, my dog and my guitars.

12. Still working on it

13. Are we supposed to by now?

14. 38 here. I was 23 and lost it at 27.

15. Never have, probably never will.

16. Nah, man.

    I’m not looking for love and if it’s offered, I’ll politely reject it.

17. I was 23. I was the rebound to a girl who got strung around for 5 years. Met her on America Online