I’m gonna try to keep this short, but me (17M) started dating my girlfriend (17F) 10 months ago and we’ve been sexually active, but she hasn’t been able to cum at all. There was a time when I went for 2 hours (not to brag), but that still didn’t make her cum, we’ve tried multiple positions, but to no avail. I keep thinking that I’m probably doing something wrong since at the start of our relationship we both were virgins, and been blaming myself quite a lot because of it. What could I try to make her finish?
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A lot of women have a really hard time reaching orgasm with penetration. Try having her play with her clit during sex or focus more on oral would be my suggestions.
Is she able to orgasm on her own? If she can’t orgasm on her own, then it’s unrealistic to expect that you’ll magically make her finish. If she knows what her body enjoys, then she can better direct you. I recommend that she spend some time masturbating and getting to know her body if she hasn’t already.
Many women can’t orgasm from penetration alone and need some clitoral stimulation. Are you incorporating clitoral stimulation? Are you performing oral?
Orgasms are not the end-all be-all of sex and should not be the sole focus. Sex is about so much more than that. If she’s satisfied and happy, that’s all that matters.
She’s not comfortable enough yet and you prob have an inadequate package lol
Get her to masturbate. If she can’t masturbate herself to orgasm then trying to make her come will be like trying to perform a miracle. It’s essentially not possible.