Frustrated

About a month ago I took my wife out for a night on the town. We went to dinner and a comedy club. Thanks to a half a gummy and some beer we both had fun and decided to hit a pizza joint for some grub afterwards.

Upon entering the pizza place, I noticed several people standing around in a random fashion. They appeared to me to be waiting in line for their pizza to be cooked. I took my wife’s hand and headed for the pizza order window.

After a few steps, I heard her call my name and looked back to realize that she had stopped. Evidently we were walking past a haphazard lineup of people waiting to order pizza.

I am polite and courteous person. I hate rude people and would never try to “bud” a line on purpose.

Low and behold, a certain grumpy and drunken looking fellow took offense assuming I was trying to cut the line. I apologized a couple of times and started walking to the back of the line.

The man became aggressive and stepped towards me and so I stood my ground and warned him that he should step back. It became somewhat heated so my wife and I decided to leave.

As per our norm, once we were in the Uber she began to criticize me for “deliberately” trying to cut the line.

Last night, 2 months later, it came up again and she continues to suggest I did it on purpose. This, for us, sadly is a repeating saga where my wife just consistently is always….”on the other side”.

Is this normal? What does it mean about her? what does it mean about us?

Argh……:(