I just got out of a toxic 3 year relationship. I won’t get into the details but it was very codependent and it felt like we really only had each other for happiness since she was the only person I talked to or spent time with. Because of this I pretty much missed out on my whole freshman year of college and am struggling to make new friends after we broke up.
I am in a group chat with a bunch of the people I met living in my dorm last year but I never really got around to hanging out with them because of the relationship I was in. They’re now constantly texting in it and making plans but none of them really reach out to me or probably expect me to join in since I rarely text or know any of them aside from my old roommate. Part of me wants to spend time with them, but I get anxious due to the fact that they are all pretty close and I barely know any of them.
Any advice on what I should do?
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Suggest an activity! If any of them go for it it takes the pressure off of you to be cool and you can just enjoy everyone’s company. If you don’t
like their company then you’ve got the activity to fall back on