i just want to fucking pee when i’m horny. i’ve never had an orgasm and i don’t finger myself either but whenever i rub my clit i can’t do it for more than a minute or two because i just want to pee whenever i do it? my bladder hurts if i’m really horny idk if it’s weird but i’m getting rly frustated abt this
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Go for it in a bathtub
First time I brought myself to orgasm, I decided to see whether I would actually urinate, so I went for it sitting on the toilet. I did not pee.
Pee before you masturbate as much as possible. Situate yourself somewhere warm but absorbent – a couple layers of towels in a dry bath is nice, especially if you light candles and soft tunes, or whatever. Be prepared to feel like you’re pissing, but lean into it and enjoy, rather than tense up and back off. Just see what happens next for you. Be prepared for warmth, as the “squirt” or “gush” is usually body heat temperature, and just ignore – let the towels do their thing. Sometimes pushing past that first urge can take you to new heights, and if you haven’t yet experienced an authentic o, be kind to yourself… many women dont get to theirs until their 30’s or even 40’s. At least you’re educating yourself and moving forward. Good luck to you.