First time having sex with this guy I am seeing & we had sex for about 45 minutes – 1 hour and he didn’t cum. Is there something wrong with me? He was wearing a condom so I’m not sure if that had anything to do with it. He reassured me it had nothing to do with me but I still can’t help but feel insecure. Any reason as to why he couldn’t cum?
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maybe death grip or he became less sensitive with condom
He was probably in his own head, maybe he was really nervous. There have been times that I wasn’t feeling it but it had nothing to do with the girl.
No worries!!! He will cum next time …. it happens to me all the time … i dont last more than 10 secs or I do not cum … Too much thinking!!!! We, boys, are stupid!!!
Usually my first time with someone either takes forever or… Doesn’t.
I sometimes can’t finish with condoms as well, and will explode in a minute once it’s off. Sometimes i just can’t for many other reasons – from being tired to no reason at all. It can be the best sex ever – it just happens. I wouldn’t worry about it, if anything be happy that you can have sex for an hour 🙂
Condom does decrease the sensibility, so it might be a factor. Or he might’ve over”played” with himself prior to the occasion – every next time for a guy takes longer. But most probably it’s psychological – he might’ve been nervous, its the first time. And what others mentioned before…
How many times did you get off
my bf didn’t come the first time we had sex and it was almost two hours at that point. when i ask him about it now he says he was really nervous – not a problem anymore