Ok so I’m cringing as I write this but I have to admit that I’m a bigger girl. Not one with like a big butt and tiny waist or just a girl with curves, but actually plus sized. I’ve struggled a lot with this and with my self esteem.
My BF is also a bigger guy, and although he makes me go crazy for him, I really want to spice things up for him. I know he has watched a lot of porn and has some more kinkier fantasies. We almost always just do missionary, and occasionally doggy but sometimes my ass is too big or something and it’s hard for him to penetrate.
I love being submissive to him, and love dirty talk. I’d love to absolutely drive him crazy and blow his mind. So honestly, what can I do to accomplish this? I welcome any advice, from different positions we can do (and both actually be able to do) to things I could say or just do. Even scenarios. I’ve tried asking him about his fantasies, and he repeatedly tells me a few examples but stresses to me that he doesn’t want to explore them (examples: threesome/gangbang but he doesn’t want to share me/hurt me in any way; anal, but when we’ve tried it hurt me a lot and he is scared of hurting me again). I really really want to just blow his mind so the more details the better! Thank you!
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Blow jobs/deep throating/ like his nuts are all good things that most guys don’t nearly as much as they would like.
i’m also a big girl. my bf has the threesome/gangbang fantasy (but doesn’t want it in reality) and he loves when i dirty talk about being his hotwife. telling him i’m going to fuck guys and send him videos etc. you don’t need to do any crazy porn positions to blow his mind. my bf loves when i lay next to him and talk dirty, then suck his nipples and jerk him off. blowjobs are also a good way to make your guy go crazy
Be confident be dirty toys are always fun be open to anything