Just hear me out. We’re still relatively newlyweds (2 years), but while we dated, first it was a LDR then after uniting, 2 heavy work schedules that didn’t allow us many physical times together. But one thing we always prioritized was making time for each other and talking lots. Our deep, open conversations is what made me fall in love with him and was a beautiful start to our relationship.
Now being married, we’re increasingly having more time together to have sex, and it’s absolutely incredible. We have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. I’m not even trying to humble brag here—we’re fucking like rabbits to the point it concerns me.
We don’t have those deep conversations as much anymore, even though I know the depth is there underneath it all. And I know people say sex is a great emotional connector for a couple, and it has been for us, but could we be neglecting one side of our relationship for too much focus on another part? Or am I overthinking or is this just a season of our marriage?
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You miss the intimacy…. That’s understandable but would you say you are both sex addicts or just really excited to have a license to fuck as much as you want and no one cares expect the people who aren’t getting any and want misery for everyone.
Sex is passion but you also need intimacy and commitment so between oral swapping have him give a list of his favorite things and then go back down on you and then back up this 3 biggest fears and back down
Go to dinner together or have a bored game night once or twice a month. And enjoy the sex.
Here’s the question: **Are you happy?**
Literally nothing else matters.
What is leading to so much sex? Genuine horniness? Misplaced energy from emotional tension?
If you could have done this while apart, you would have.
The deep conversations will come again, but only after you cum again and again and again.
Good luck.