I have been texting a guy I’ve met on an app for a little bit. He lives out of town. It is about two hours away. He said he wanted to come up and meet me. He got a hotel room to stay in and we made all these plans for when he was in town. We were going to do actual activities and eat. Thing to do while we got to know each other better. It turns out he didn’t get into town until almost 9 that night so there wasn’t much anything we could do but go eat and go have a drink. We did hit it off and I’ll admit I went back to his hotel to watch a movie. However, it turned physical fast. This is the first time I’ve dated since my husband passed so I don’t know if this is normal or not. Because the very next morning I thought we still had plans but he said he had to be going. We kept talking all week but our talks are so superficial. Hi, good morning, what are you doing, and stuff like that. The next week end I came to see him. I got here late because the invite came late. I got to the hotel at 830pm. He got here even later. It turns out he had to work the next morning early. It’s a Saturday. I feel like this is an odd way to go about things. If I had known that we wouldn’t even spend the morning together I might not have come. I just can’t figure out if this is normal in the beginning of dating or if this is turning out to be a physical only thing.