I’ll be finishing college next year. I can easily talk to girls who I know. And I know them either because I had to work with them in a project or they used to ask me doubts related to academics. And I never had a crush on anybody up until now. Yeah it’s weird but it’s true. But there’s this girl in the building that I live in (it’s a students residential wing) and I can’t take my eyes off her whenever I see her. But unfortunately, my anti-social self comes out and I can’t even talk a single word with her. I just don’t know how to begin the conversation. She doesn’t study in my college and I don’t even know her name. Please help me out here as I’ve got about 3 to 4 months before I move to another city for my internship.
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Good signal for you that inner work has to be done. You’re seeking her validation, it’s stifling you so much and taking up your mental bandwidth that you don’t know what to say. Never invest that much into one person, especially one that you don’t know yet. You’re the hero in your movie, on your own path. Even asking this question is already a red flag. You should be too busy working on your passions, your hobbies & interests to worry that much about someone you don’t know.