Hi 👋 Some people I come across are very loud when someone makes a mistake. For example, if someone says something stupid, they’ll point at them and make sure that everybody else knows who made the stupid mistake. Or, if someone makes a comment about something, the person will take it personally and let everyone else know what they said.
I’m sure that everyone has done this before, but I’m wondering about the people who do it all the time.
It’s happened to me and to others. It’s really annoying, because it’s a mood killer.
I think the reason I find it annoying is because I rarely do it to them, and I feel like they are just trying to be horrible.
Is there a reason people do this or is it just them being a “speaking before thinking” type of person?
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If someone is always calling attention to the failings and mistakes of others, they’re doing so to avoid people recognizing and seeing their own mistakes and failures.
Narcisists
insecurity, to divert from their own flaws
They’re insecure, and lacking in maturity and possibly empathy
I want to say maybe also anti social and not aware of social interactions or narcissistic/ insecure