I’m a 17 year old guy. And I’ve a left bending cock. Not slightly but a bit more than that. And I can’t push my foreskin back (meaning the head isn’t visible). I’m pretty sure it isn’t a case of phimosis because the foreskin doesn’t pile up or hurt at all. It just doesn’t pull back. I can’t see any doctor help because of my family and also I don’t have enough money. I haven’t talked bout this with anyone. Can anyone help me in anyway? It’d be great. Because I’m confused and at this point too scared to even be sexually active with someone.
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You need to see a doctor. Only a doctor can tell whether it is phimosis or conglutination and can treat you accordingly.
Your family should be interested in your being healthy, no matter their views on sexuality.
Maybe you can talk to a male relative, like your father/uncle/cousin. You can tell them you think there is an “issue” with your privates because you can’t retract the skin all the way and you’re afraid it might smell bad or cause an infection in the end. I think there are also free doctor sites that allow you to send a picture so that someone can take a look who actually knows what they’re talking about.
My brother came to me sometime between 18 and 22. He dropped some questions but i didnt pry. I think he used the odor or chaffing excuse with my parents. Be confident but be vague.
Since you’re under 18, you may still need an adult but see if you can ask for privacy