When society constantly tells me my country and my people are inferior and disgusting. And that I am not a proper man because I am Asian.
The worst thing is everyone acts like they don’t know what I’m talking about.
We have small dicks, we are short, we are too skinny, we don’t have enough facial hair, we have low testosterone, we are unathletic and Chinese athletes only win because of cheating or because they are inhumanely forced to win medals by the government.
We are too passive, we are cheaters, we are uncreative. We eat dogs, we eat cats, we eat bats.
We are racist, we focus too much on school and work, we lack empathy, we are too collectivistic.
And it goes on and on and on. And yet I should easily be confident right? Why would I be insecure due to my heritage at all? What nonsense. Don’t I know how privileged I am being one the of the richest ethnicities in the US?
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Not a dark skinned Mexican anymore?
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First off, having an identity crisis on Reddit is not a real cry for help. Secondly, if you are seeking reassurance on Reddit, then you have much bigger problems to deal with. Good luck.