I want to be better at bjs any tips tricks hacks

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1. Look up the frenulum. It’s the spot right under the head of his penis. Give that area plenty of love. Lick it, kiss it, all while stroking him with your hand.

   Keep it sloppy. Spit on his cock, spit in your hands to use as lube.

   Most importantly, be enthusiastic. Make it clear through your actions and expression that you love sucking his dick, love making him feel good.

2. And look him in the eye when doing it…bigger turn on.

3. Best blowjob experience I ever had fwiw… was randomly talking to this girl about Jerry Maguire film, how good it was etc… and then a bit later she came out of shower, just wearing a towel, and comes to give me a BJ. She had Prosecco and as she’s sucking takes a swig, dribbles it on my cock, looking me direct in the eye, and asks ‘tell me about that Jerry Maguire film again’ – in all my life I’ve never had someone flip me so much that I couldn’t get a word out of my mouth 😂

   As I tried to answer she did this sexy ‘mmm hmm’ as she sucked… glorious

4. Look up “edging bj” on any porn website. All you need to know.

5. Show enthusiasm, eye contact, use your hands to your advantage, and ask if there’s anything they really enjoy about a bj (do they like it sloppy/messy, do they enjoy having their balls touched, etc)

6. I recently tried massaging and licking the shaft, the guy seem to really enjoy it. I am not comfortable with any anus action yet so i think it’s a good alternative:)

7. Eye contact and wrapping your tounge around the frenulum!

8. When I’m doing sucking men off I enjoy doing the following :

   1- use both your mouth and hand and make it super sloppy
   2- lick it, kiss it, find out if he enjoys it being gently bitten ( hubby does )
   3) look him in the eyes, make noise.

   I enjoy licking the balls, licking all the way down, sometimes I deep throat.

   Also don’t be afraid to really go to town on it

9. I have given head to a lot of guys. And a couple things that I’ve noticed almost all of them have really enjoyed are 1. Sloppy Deepthroating: keep your mouth open and stick your tongue out a little while you take him as deep as you can. Try to make as much noise as you can while he’s going in. 2. Let him be dominant: tell him to hold the back of your head or hold on to your hair and move your head up and down on him however he likes. A lot of guys like to play a dominant role in the bedroom and this also allows you to find out how he really likes it to be done. 3. Bonus tip: lay on your back with your head hanging off the bed and have him standing in front of you. This is the best angle for taking him as deep as possible, it gets super messy, and it let’s him control the pace. Guaranteed to make him see stars! Good luck!

10. Watch amateur videos on it too and see what looks like fun. I would do it seriously for hours lol while he would read out loud to me. Super fun stuff. Or do it while he’s cooking or playing video games.

11. The only ‘body hack’ I’ve heard of is clenching your left thumb inside of your left palm. Apparently it helps suppress your gag reflex in case you’ve had trouble taking more.

12. Suck him like normal until you have a nice sloppy bunch of saliva. Drink water to
    help.

    Put your right hand in an o shape with your finger tips of your fingers touching your thumb.

    Put the that hand on his dick. Now that you jack with it.

    Then put your mouth on him at the same time. Up against that hand.

    Keep blowing and hand jobbing.

    Mostly handjobbing squeezing as much as he would like. Ask about it .

    Use your mouth to lubricate and suck here and there. When he gets close use your mouth to suck more and go faster.