Met his whole family within 2-3 months of our relationship. Been very much involved with both family and friends as it is very much important to him and for me to be involved. Even traveled 4 times to visit his parents by his side and twice solo. And yet 2 years in the relationship and he still hasn’t met my family and has barely hung out with me and my friends and the times that he has it’s like he is not even trying as in he barely interacts. What’s up with the lack of reciprocity?
TL;DR
I have a relationship with his friends and family while he doesn’t seem interested in mine. What do I make of this?
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He’s the star, you’re his supporting actor. He wants someone to fit into HIS life. He’s not interested in integrating into yours.
Maybe he’s just not interested in getting to know new people, maybe something happened when he did meet your friends that made him not want to do it again, maybe he’s anxious or selfish or introverted, maybe he’s worried your family won’t like him. I can imagine a bunch of things that could be happening here. After two years I’d expect you to be able to talk about it, though, so I think the only way you’re going to find out what’s up is to just ask him.