I’m M(23) who lives in homophobic country and most guys are very sus that I met , and assume that I’m very innocent, I have been on grinder and met some people, it wasn’t good, like I’m not attracted to them or it’s just feels something is off… and some guys I met on Facebook, not that much but it was nice but I want do it with someone I’m attracted to, with someone whose smarter than me and have emotional connection, I’ve been talking with straight guys and taking risks by flirting with them but they turned me down when we were talking about sex but still flirts with me time to time so I stopped talking with them but now I just want to make out,give 🧠 and have passionate sex , with someone I kinda feel close to, as a guy like I know how horny and how we can get turned on easily so like, when I found someone attractive, can I just politely ask for 🧠? Like I wish it was normalized… just how can I find the right person to do it with someone I’m attracted to? And I want them to feel flattered and want them to enjoy it.
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This comment is not to shame promiscuity, but you need to ensure that things will be safe for yourself.
Anyone is allowed to engage in casual relationships however, you should still be careful about who the people are that you are doing these things with.
Allowing for natural progression where you get to know someone first before you escalate things is a safe and healthy thing to do.
If you don’t go down the route of building a connection first with someone and are more inclined for taking risks, just make sure you know what to look out for visually on someone’s genitals. If you see something unusual then steer clear for your own health.