Hey everyone im here because I think i’m being naive & am seeking opinions. Respectfully please.
For background, i’ve been single for roughly 5 years now. Focusing on school and moving to a new location. Prior to this, i was in a 3 year relationship where i heavily cared & supported for my last girl. due to her having of few health issues. Otherwise a healthy relationship.. ending in us both wanting diff things out of life.
For my character.. picture 23/M who’s heavily loving, supportive, loyal. tho needs to still focus on school as i’ll be going into a nursing program soon. Not too needy but if in a relationship, needs a deep connection to thrive with partner & do anything intimate. I’m fully independent, supporting myself financially, exc.
Okay now that we are up to date… fast forward. So these past 2-3ish months, i came across this cute girl who I instantly fell for. I prob became attached so easily since i haven’t seen anyone in so long. I see her once/twice a week between work & school. We met on bumble & we’ve already done all of the above(sexually). Her being my 2nd body. im now questioning staying with her 😭. i feel terrible cuz she’s never been in a healthy relationship(past few long term relationships treating her terrible) so i’m her first even tho we aren’t labeled as together.
I’ve been able to give her something new. an extremely healthy partner & im already well known by all her family.
Id love to stay with her cuz she satisfies my loneliness & gives me a form of comfort & consistency. But literally, she is so extremely superficial & doesn’t know how to ask me any questions about myself. So convos are very shallow.
Almost like when i see her i feel like i’m just living in the moment cuz it doesn’t satisfy anything else almost
What do i do?? I tried talking to her already about being more curious about my past & what not. still nothing. I know so much about her past & family sorta. & she doesn’t ask me anything to try & get to know me deeply/understand me.
Note: Also she goes to school full time so no work. I pay for everything at the moment till she gets financial aid. Not a deal breaker.. but it does cross my mind as im spending quite a bit of $$ whenever we see each other. It’s been this way the past 2-3ish months.
Forgot to say. but we are both not talking to anyone else. made it clear. & according to her friend.. she’s been overthinking, wondering why I haven’t asked her to be my girl yet
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