I love my wife and we have a pretty good sex life. We have been married for over 20 years now.
I’ve always been higher libido than her and take care of myself regularly. Because of that I have developed some kinks over the years that has been something that I do during solo time. My wife on the other hand is pretty vanilla. She likes what she likes and says she isn’t sure about what she thinks about doing anything different.
I want to open up with her but I am scared of being rejected and looked at as a perv.
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Does your wife know you take care of yourself solo?
I’d maybe start out the conversation by sharing some of the things you do alone. And then maybe ask if she’d be down to watch more kinky porn together. And then progress from there? There are ways to move in that direction without jumping in feet first and making her uncomfortable.
These are some tips we used to get the conversation started and it made a huge improvement
https://sexyfunadvice.com/2022/08/how-do-i-have-a-conversation-about-kinkier-sex/