How to give a mind blowing cunnilingus??

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1. Listen to her. Do what she tells you. Simple as that.

2. After a while, add a finger or two into the V

3. Blow really really hard until her head pops off.

4. If she’s sounds like she’s really enjoying it DO NOT CHNAGE IT UP, just keep doing what you’re doing.

   As dumb as it sounds doing the alphabet with your tongue can help you figure out which direction works best for her.

   Sucking lighting can feel real nice.

   If you have long hair make sure it’s out the way and if you have facial hair either make sure it’s been conditioned/soft or shave it completely down. Hurts like a bitch to get bread rash down there.

   SAY NOTHING ABOUT THE TASTE, just don’t man it makes us Hella self-conscious.

5. Read She Comes First and then practice.

6. Switch a lot. Start slow. Enjoy it, you really must do. Kiss her pussy. Kiss her inner thighs. Lick around her pussy. Put tongue inside of pussy, lick upwards her clit. Go up and down slow a few times. Maybe start to suck her clit gently, lick her clit and start to feel how she reacts. Some (most women what I’ve learned so far) want a finger inside. When she tells you that it feels really good. Don’t go harder, faster anything just maintain same pressure and speed until you think either you die or she orgasm.

   Everybody is different. Some like to get their asshole played with.

   I’ve learned that give her a little for play and some pussy rubbing before going down is easier for me.

7. Just ask her what she likes..

8. Never be doing only one thing. With your tongue on her clit, reach in and massage that g-spot. Press your nose into her commissure and prepuce. While you pause for breath, lay your whole tongue flat across her entire vulva and press firmly for a few seconds. Put you other hand under her ass, squeeze and lift her up a little, so you can get your tongue into her vagina a little. Then get back on the clit.

   Also, really learn that anatomy. There’s a lot going on! She Comes First has great illustrations

9. Well, I recommend this good ol [sexplanation](https://youtu.be/xOSMMIE_unk) on eating out. Lots of good info in not a lot of time. Not porn, but I wouldn’t say it’s SFW either

   Manage your expectations, go at it to have a good time but don’t put the weight of “YOU GOTTA CUM FOR ME” on the encounter. Have fun but don’t expect the big O, especially if you’re still learning each other’s bodies.

   At the end of the day it’s about connection more than cumming.

10. Enthusiasm can count for a lot; all women are different and there is no one-size-fits-all technique.

    I strongly recommend straight up asking “how sensitive is your clit?” before you start if the situation lends itself to that at all (and most do). Also, try to find out if she’s a squirter so you can plan ahead with towels if need be.

    Pick a smart position in which you can be comfortable as you’re going to want to focus entirely on her for anywhere from 4-25+ minutes – my personal preference by far is her lying on her back near the edge of a bed with her legs bent (rising up above the bed, feet right by the edge), with me kneeling by the side of the bed so I can get my head right in between her legs. You can obviously make other positions work, though.

    Some clits are big, some are small and hidden. But ideally you want to dance with it, get it excited, keep it interested, take it in stride if it loses focus for bit, get it back into the game, nurse it back to getting excited again, and find a rhythm that you can keep at consistently the moment you find something that works. For instance, straight up sensual licks followed by down strokes in which you shake your head slightly to give it another sensation is one approach that I’ve had rave reviews on.

    When she’s close or orgasming, be consistent, *do not change a thing* about what you’re doing. Keep doing *exactly* what you’ve been doing for the past few seconds, even if your tongue is tired or in pain.

    If she’s a squirter, unless you know that you enjoy the taste of pee, my advice is to keep your mouth closed during that point and avoid swallowing.

    Be complimentary, and express joy at having been able to share in her orgasm! Don’t expect reciprocation as an automatic given.

    Good luck! Practice goes a long way!

11. Talk to your partner

12. You would be surprised but… Fingering the ass will do the pleasure job

13. The alphabet trick works great. Start spelling out the alphabet with your tongue, like drawing out an “A”, until you hit a particular letter. Once you do *no not stop* drawing that letter until she says so. Voila!

14. A good advice would be to ask what this specific person likes. If you can do it sexy bonus points.

15. Step 1: don’t call it cunnilingus

16. I think it’s important to be thrilled, excited, and turned on by having her pussy right there in front of your face. Don’t get all goal-oriented about anything or have any expectations or even any thought about how long it might take or anything like that. Just be delighted by and thoroughly into her glorious pussy and pay attention to how she responds to what you do. That’s about the only advice that I can think of that’s anywhere near universal.

    In terms of techniques, every woman is different. For most women, what’s going to get her there eventually is some kind of steady movement and pressure on her clit, but what kind of movement, how fast, and how much pressure is going to be very individual. And you don’t want to try to start that too quickly. In my experience, it works best to take your time getting your mouth down there, and when you do, to build some tension around getting in and engaging with her clit. Then you can start figuring out what works.

    For some women, fingers are an important part of it. Find out if that’s true for her, but don’t even try to slip a finger in until she’s good and wet. A finger in the back door is magic for some women and totally a turn off for others. If you make a move that direction maybe give the opening a gentle brush and see if she moves onto your finger. If so, don’t put that finger in her pussy after it’s been in her ass.

    And like lots of folks have said, if she’s building to an orgasm, keep doing what you’re doing. Stay with her motions. Don’t stop or suddenly switch it up, just stay with her. It’s something you two are doing together.

17. a) Place your mouth around her clit and suck on it while flicking it with your tongue. At the same time, insert your thumb into the opening of her vagina.

    b) Insert just the tip of your index finger into her vagina and move it around in circles. The spot just inside her opening is very sensitive.

    c) Rub your thumbs in little circles around the clit while licking the head with a pointed tongue.

    d) Insert your fingers deep inside her and make a “come hither” motion. This should hit her g-spot.

    Anyway [this guide](https://366hacks.wordpress.com/2022/08/03/cunnilingus/) has a nicely detailed road map drawn for you

18. Actually enjoying what you’re doing… explore, try things… PAY ATTENTION to her body language & the sounds she’s making… if you’re close enough, maybe whisper “do you like that?” Or “do you want me to keep doing this?” Communication can be awkward at first, but once you do it enough, it won’t be necessary… & ladies, DON’T fake it!!! You’re not doing anyone any favors! He’ll think he’s doing a good job & you’ll never get satisfaction… Have fun! Explore! BE SAFE!

19. Every woman is different but I believe we all want to see a partner excited and turned on about giving head.

20. My girl 100% does not want me “switching a lot” she would stop me and say “what the fuck are you doing”. Also she hates kissing her inner thighs and stuff. Just get in there and lick that clit and if she starts moaning in any way keep up what your doing until she either cums or your neck breaks.

21. So, do the abcs with your tongue… in cursive. And when you get to z go backwards or start over. The non repetitiveness of the motion keeps the clitoral hood out of the way and you can practice on the back of your teeth

22. All women like their pussy sucked differently so I would say ask the woman you are with.

    Sucking pussy is a fine art and most women would prefer not to have it if it’s done incorrectly.

23. Be enthusiastic, hold on to her legs tight and just make love to her pussy with your tongue. Women will be able to tell if you’re into it or not so enjoy it and go crazy!