It’s not exactly a problem per se, but I’ve noticed that when I rub my clit after about 10 seconds I can’t stop shaking and can’t continue even though it feels amazing. It’s the same when my boyfriend does it, he can do it for longer but the shaking of my body scares him and he doesn’t want to hurt me even though I say it’s all okay.
Any ways to fix this or build a tolerance?
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Maybe your super sensitive, have you tried a really light touch or tapping it and with lube. Or with his tongue?
This sounds a lot like a problem for r/becomingorgasmic
There are a ton of different ways to stimulate yourself and I’m not gonna retype all of them. Scroll to #3 and thank me later:
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/clitoris#partner-tips-and-tricks
I’d power through the sensation. Try a different way of touching yourself if that doesn’t work. Are you over or under the hood? Maybe even trying it over your panties could work.
use indirect stimulation. listen to what your body is telling you. play around the area and move to more direct stimulation if you need to.