Lately it’s been taking me longer to reach an orgasm, Idk if it’s because I’m stressed or tired or both. Wondering if not touching myself when I feel the need to will improve things. Currently I do it about 3-4 times a week. Maybe a couple of weeks of not doing it will improve things? Also does it make it easier to cum from penetrative sex alone?
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No. The more the better. It’s normally porn that slows ppl down in that aspect
It varies a lot from person to person. Abstinence absolutely can increase responsiveness to arousal, but it’s not a guarantee.
I would say yes if you are using a death grip when you masturbate. Double if you happened to be watching porn and stopped doing that as well.
I have def let sexual tension build with my SO recently rather than forcing what we call “lazy sex” aka sex toys. We decided to have sex and really take things extremely slow and tease it out and it was the most intense/intimate/turned on soaking wet sex I’ve had ever with her. We are both females so foreplay is always a thing we do but a long with the build up was INSANE.