Hi friends.
The guy I’m seeing is the first who’s gone out of his way to make sure I was enjoying myself. The first and only man I’ve been with to prioritise my enjoyment over his own. And, boy, did he take me places. This dude is next level.
I always give it all I’ve got and my oral efforts are always well received. This new guy definitely enjoyed it, but.. I want to do better. I want to return the favour and show him the best blowjob he’s ever had in his goddamn life. And will ever have. I want to be the point of reference for all future blowjobs. I want him to tell his great-grandchildren about the legendary blowjob of ’22. I want it to go down in history as being so unrealistically amazing that future generations will label it a myth.
Guys, in your experience, what takes a blowjob up to the next level? What little tricks can I throw in there to make it extraordinary?
Thanks in advance 8===D
Edit to add: I won’t be responding to any DMs. If you have something helpful to add, please write it in the comments. Thank you! š
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Go to… free porn site and search how to stuff. And then you could see a few things. But nothing beats practical experience. You will know what your soning give it a try. But there is no perfect practice. If something works stick to it. If another thing doesn’t move on.
Say abracadabra before the blowjob and it will get magical.
try pulling a coin out of his urethra?..
Use the elder wand to tickle his balls while sucking him
No rush.. go slow, eye contact,
I like it when she holds my balls and shaft both hands and goes to town on my head
Also no-hands bj feels awesome too, leaves her hands to touch chest,legs bum, cheeks etc
Eye contact, it is the hottest shit there is. Also you need to be salivating like you just saw the tastiest dish out there after a fast
Ok, so I’m a girl, I can’t really say how good it feels, obviously, but I’ve always had (very) good feedbacks on the bj I give. Here’s a few tips i could give you. Start with teasing the guy first, to really get him in the mood, depending on what he likes. Lingerie, flirt, roleplay, licks here and there, whatever might work.. I find we often say that for girls but experience showed me that it’s very important for guys too, same for the choice of the place where you’re gonna do it. Then start going down on him. Start with kisses, licks.. don’t forget the balls, some guys really like it and they’re often forgotten. Lick/suck the head first then go all the way. Don’t try to go too fast or he can start feeling numb at some point, even though, again, it depends on the person. Be really aware of his reactions to get to know what he likes. You can use your hand to cover as much surface possible, depending on how big he is. Try sucking on it (like creating a vaccum in your mouth if you see what i mean). Deepthroat is obviously a must if you’re able to. Try to get a good rythm but don’t keep it going for too long. Change it every once in a while but make sure he’s not getting close or you’ll ruin the moment.
That’s pretty much every thing I can think about… hope that helps š
Good luck becoming a legend 
For me, receiving a BJ is fantastic, but knowing it’s a “special occasion” actually kind of ruins it. Sex is psychological and you can make it great by telling him how much you love it, and how you want to do it again.
“I want to drink your cum everyday, I wish I could do this every morning”, etc etc.
Let him know that it’s not a one time thing, and he will be more comfortable enjoying it.
Don’t discount how helpful (amateur) porn can be. After blowing (his mind), ask him how it was, and how it could be better. Ask him to show you his favorite bj scene from a real couple on pornhub.
Get it wet and lots and lots of saliva, the thick slippery kind. Put a towel down and just let it go crazy. When he cums, try to keep stimulating him instead of just leaving the head of the dick in your mouth and being still…keep doing whatever you were doing to make him cum, and let him ride it out slowly tapering off. Don’t focus on the head during orgasm, try to have it back a little further, if possible.
Good luck and have fun!
Remember that the balls exist.
Hereās my ol reliable: eye contact, one hand one shaft one holding balls, good amount of spit, humming while deepthroating (negates the reflex), occasionally licking balls. Every man is different, but this works for most of my partners.
Edit: thx for the award. I think I never got that oneš
Go to the askgaybros subreddit. They are the best at knowing how to give great blowjobs.
While there is an encyclopedia of knowledge through each section of [this guide](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/blowjob/) on how to give a perfect blowjob, you may be wondering what the best blow job technique is?
The number one blow job technique is actually an attitude. Itāsā¦
Enthusiasm
Enthusiasm is by far the most powerful thing you can incorporate into your sex skills AND life. Think about it this for a minuteā¦
When you give your man a blow job (or hand job or have sex with him) while being completely enthusiastic about it and totally focused on him, itās going to massively arouse and turn him on.
So even if youāre arenāt totally sure about what youāre doing, just focus on being enthusiastic. Youāll be surprised at how much this enhances the experience for your man. You donāt have to give a perfect fuck if youāre really enthusiastic and into it!
Energy and Enthusiasm first and foremost. Secondly, be receptive to instructions, ask for his preferences and give some eye contact.
If all else fails, eat his ass.
You need to understand where the magic spot is. If youāre not sure, go to r/thatsthespot and take a look.
So, I also consider myself very talented in this area, and recently learned a specific trick that has basically let me level up, so to speak. You know how you pull your lips back and forth on the ridge when you’re playing with the head? I always did that while exerting pressure with my lips, which makes them kinda firm – like puckering up for a kiss. Lots of saliva so it glides, but still stronger pressure. Recently learned to let the lips themselves go floppy and kinda pout like you’re going to go thbthbth with your finger on your mouth? Idk, relax the lips and use the texture there to apply more sensation, without friction that can be too much esp on the head/ridge area. Mouth behind it still gives plenty of pressure as needed (depends totally on the guy), but the point of contact is a lot softer, and I can play along that ridge longer before friction makes it oversensitive.
Add a bit of sloppiness to it. When my girl gets it wet and starts going to town with her mouth and hand up and down, oh my god! Also donāt ignore the balls. Lick them up and down and gentle sucking adds a lot
I like playing with the tip of the dick with my tongue when itās in my mouth. Circle it while Iām going up and down. I have received positive feedbacks. 3-4 of them said i give the best bj so maybe try that.
My gf went from having never given anyone a bj before to being the absolute best I’ve ever recieved oral from in like a month, with exactly zero ramp-up time. I’m talking just the nervous foray of a first-timer to goddess who taught me that I actually do like blow jobs from one date to the next.
Other than possibly sacrificing a child in a blood rite or making a deal with the devil or something, what she does different from anyone else that makes her the absolute GOAT in the head department would be
– She thinks male genitals are cool/interesting. Honest to god, she sometimes seems like she’s having fun doing soke kind of science experiment! She likes exploring and doesn’t try to rush anything, she loves just handling me and teasing to try to learn my responses and what makes me twitch. I think she knows my body better than what I do, sometimes.
– She can’t deepthroat, but she has this way of sucking the head while working the base with a hand at the same time that feels great.
– Again: enthusiasm and how she seems to enjoy giving for its own sake is incredible. If your partner is like me and feels guilty being the focus rather than almost always taking care of you, this will be a secret weapon of its own. She’ll drive me absolutely crazy because she’ll tell me she’s in charge and I can’t reciprocate, which might help get it across to your bf that it’s OK to lay back and just enjoy things.
– Edging. I had no idea how good it felt until she started doing this. Along with taking her time, she loves edging me and seeing how much she can screw me up when I’m taking a turn on a video game or studying or fill in the blank. There’s also this twisting movement she started doing that will make me painfully sensitive, and she’ll just keep me there for 10-30 minutes then let me desensitise enough to finish me off and I’ll nearly black out from when she finishes me off.
In short: you don’t need to be a porn star, just make your guy feel like he can be open enough with you to let you give and not need to ‘pay it back’ right away, take the time to turn him into your science experiment and learn his body’s reactions, and make it clear you’re having fun and enjoying yourself.
Best of luck!
Male half of a couple here. First off, suck dick like the point is making him feel you appreciate him. I love intermittent dirty talk. Doesnāt have to be nasty, but the idea is being just slightly freakier than he thinks you can be normally if that makes sense. Wetter the better. If I feel a little spit drip down to my balls and the air hits it, Iām in the 7th level of spiritual heaven. Some girls miss that sucking it isnāt about creating a constant 100% vacuum on the dick. In my opinion friction and movement are much more important. Please please please use the tongue and swirl it around. Alternating your mouth and your lips on the Frenum beneath the head are magical, flips the sensations up.
Not sure your feelings on the ending, but here is my ideal. Iām getting close, she opens her mouth and strokes me while my head is constantly rubbing and bouncing on the end of her tongue. When I do finally pop, let me watch the first shot or two of cum shoot into your mouth, then close your mouth and GENTLY suck while I finish throbbing in your mouth. End It with a nice smile while you lick your lips and tell me, āBaby, that was amazingā. Im essentially just putty at that point.
Full disclosure, this isnāt a daily or weekly occurrence in our relationship. More a, the stars aligned and everything was perfect this session. Good luck, Iām sure your man is going to have a ball.
I personally go crazy when my wife looks at me in the eyes and licks my dick from head to balls multiple times. Deep throating is always good. Stroking it while licking the head is fantastic. A few head nods at the head then going all the way down feels amazing to me. If you swallow and if you can stand it, keep going after he cums. If I’m standing I practically fall over from that.
Edit: also if you’re both comfortable with it and he’s expressed interest, face fucking is always fun! Obviously that needs an open conversation and a “hell yeah” from both of you.
2 tricks I always enjoyed was when the wife also puts my balls in her mouth at the same times as sheās blowing me.
And i love it when she take all of my shaft in then some how sticks out her tongue and licks my balls while she has her mouth full.
Suck it like itās your last meal lmao. Iāve been told that my enthusiasm adds to the pleasure
Honestly the best blowjob isn’t just one blowjob, it’s more of a constant display of genuine enjoyment of what you are doing and a desire to do more.
Granted I don’t have too much persona experience since most of my partners have been very happy to receive but not as enthusiastic about giving back. Maybe that influences my preferences, well it definitely does, but hey I can only really speak for myself too.
Everyone is different, but as a guy who enjoys being a pleaser it can be a bit difficult to get into the mindset of just receiving. It may sound silly but it takes time to learn to get into the mindset to be able to fully enjoy receiving.
Also everyone is different in what they enjoy even when it comes to just pure technique as well. Some like getting deep throated others may find it less appealing, some will love when it’s messy and makes a lot of noise, others can be turned off by that, some want to see what you are doing and others want to just close their eyes, etc etc etc.
Basic tips though are, if your guy is intact try to put your tongue between the glans and the foreskin and move it around. Give the frenulum plenty of attention. Don’t forget to use your tongue a lot. Also make it known just how much you enjoy giving him pleasure. Oh on that last note, ask him what he likes. Maybe not as fun as being able to spontaneously just give him exactly what he loves as if you read his mind, but honestly a close second.
I looked up a guided porn video a long time ago about how to give better blowjobs and she gave me these tips that I do on my man
– use your tongue simultaneously while doing a typical blowjob (takes practice but itās amazing)
– use your hand and mouth while doing the tongue motions to both give a slight handjob and blowjob (also takes practice but amazing results ensured)
– if youāre tired just have your mouth resting on his dick while moving your hand up and down for a handjob ( my man loved this and it made him cum)
All the other comments are great suggestions but I do want to point out that it is all subjective so try a variety of things. For example, I personally don’t think deep throating is all everyone else says it is. It’s fine but it’s not what really gets my balls tightening. Other guys seem to also like really fast and aggressive blowjobs. I don’t mean to yuck anyone else’s yum but I don’t like that either.
My point is guys are all different so don’t assume all the tips you get here are going to work for your guy. Try them but if they don’t get the reaction you were expecting, dont get discouraged. Just try something else.
For me, nothing beats an amazing handjob with lots of kissing and licking. Google “lingam massage.” Get some edible lube and get him nice and slick. Then slowly stroke and massage his penis, pelvis, stomach, and thighs while you kiss and lick his frenulum, the under side of his shaft, his balls, and his perenium. This feels extra amazing if he’s clean shaven but is still nice if he’s not.
If you want to take it to the next level (and you a have gotten the green light from him first) also try playing with his ass. It can be as simple as circling the outside with a lubed finger or inserting a finger up to the first knuckle. You should be able to do that with just a small amount of pre-cleaning on his part. If you want to go for a full on prostate massage then it will require some more involved cleaning to make sure you don’t encounter any poop. But if you are both game, a prostate massage _really_ takes everything else to the next level. The prostate is responsible for the amount of cum he shoots and the intensity of his orgasm so stimulating it will ampflify both and he will lose his fucking mind.
Iām also a giver and itās amazing to receive somebodyās best effort. Hereās my experience:
I met a girl a few weeks ago and as we were hooking up, she looks me dead in the eyes and says with full confidence: āIām going to give you the best head of your life.ā
She proceeded to do so, and the next best blowjob Iāve ever had wasnāt even close.
I was laying on my back and she was on all fours, one hand propping herself up, but it was still able to play with my balls, and the other was wrapped around my cock, just in ahead of her mouth. She was doing half rotations with her wrist as she took me in up and down. It was a very wet and lubricated environment with her spit, which felt incredible. The pace was fast and she would split her focus between the task at hand and eye contact. I didnāt last but two minutes (usually I struggle to come from head), and she swallowed everything.
Anyways it was amazing and it made me fall in love with her a bit. She blew me again in the morning and I never heard from her again.
Hope this helps!
I’m gay, so I like to give and receive blowjobs.
Just be really into it.
The cock you’re sucking should be the most valuable thing in the universe at that moment.
Suck it, lick it, but most of all, worship the cock.
Make eye contact, and take your time.
A magical blowjob is all about technique and perception. I can’t tell you exactly what techniques he will enjoy so gather 3 or 4 different ones and play with them that’s when perception comes into play. Your goal isn’t the orgasm but the ride, switch techniques when you see him starting to breathe faster, moan, grab the sheets or any body part.
You want a legendary blowjob? Do all the above but first find out what visual aids turn him on. Is it ponytails? Is it you half naked? Is it you fully naked? Is it seeing you grabbing your boobs or ass or touching yourself? Is it leggings stockings, lingerie, makeup? Whatever the answer is, find it and apply it. If he sees his girl wearing what turns him on, doing whatever turns him on to herself during a bj… And then the technique is diversified… Girl.. That boy is gonna curl his toes harder than his dick will be when he blasts you with your reward.