If you’ve had previous sexual experience and been someone’s first, how was it different than being with partners that had a similar amount of or more experience than you?
For context I, 24F, have had a few partners that all had more experience than me, but I’ve been dating someone, 26M, who has no prior experience. Anything I should be aware of? However, I mostly also just want to hear other people’s experiences regardless of gender or specific advice.
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You want to be kind and reassuring, with guys the first time is often short due to orgasming quickly, or they are so nervous that having a serviceable erection is difficult and they go soft or will be unable to penetrate due to anxiety.
Those sorts of things happen even to experienced lovers and you want to ensure them that you have plenty of time and that it is not an issue.
I had sex with a number of young women when I had younger and for first time experience, we would always go slowly and take as much time as needed to ensure their comfort, with the actual sex but more importantly with their choice to have sex.