I’ve been dating a guy for roughly 6 months. For the past month i’m starting to notice things changing with him and i’m starting to fear he is losing interest in our relationship.

The first few months we were dating, he and i would have long conversations all day on snap every day. He would always compliment me on how handsome i am to him. He would send me spicy pics all the time, and that was just our daily thing.

We would go on some fun dates almost every weekend. He would bake things for me and even go outta his way to deliver them to my apartment.

It was very romantic.

But now we don’t really go out anymore. He’s a bit of a workaholic. But lately he’s been too busy to go out. These past few weekends he says his schedule is too busy to do dates.

We don’t chat on snap as much as we have before. A day or two will go by without hearing anything back from him. Our conversations that once were long paragraphs are now just, “okee” or “that’s nice” and that’s it.

No more nudies either…

His tone has kinda changed, no more romantic talk. Actually he’s kinda been cynical about things lately. Not about me tho. Just stuff in his life.

A couple of times i simply asked him if everything is ok with him. But he goes “yeah” i’m fine. And that’s that.

If it matters we still are sexually active. Not as much at first but still considerably a healthy amount. However, he wants to do some things to me i am not ready to do yet, and i feel like that can be frustrating for him. I worry i am unable to pleasure him properly.

Are we drifting? Or are things just slowing down and getting comfy?

3 comments
  1. Could just mean the honeymoon phase is over. Just keep communicating. Nothing wrong with getting comfortable but getting lazy is when you start neglecting the relationship.

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