He responded to me after 29 hours of being left on read, what should I do now?

8 comments

1. Was it an urgent question? Do you require daily communication? If you want an expectation of yours met, they need to be aware of it then they can decide if it’s doable or not.

2. Respond back to him in 30 hours 😛

3. You should chill the fuck out, is my professional advice.

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   Then you should decide whether or not you want to go on a date with him.

   Then, do that. Or don’t.

   How do you make it through your day? Do you need someone to give input or advice on every basic decision or issue that crops up?

4. Definitely chill.

   Sometimes people get busy, are exhausted or, dare I say it, forget to respond.

   I am meeting up with someone tomorrow who does this and I have learnt that sometimes people just get caught up in things or find it difficult to respond online.

   Just because he didn’t respond straight away doesn’t mean he’s not longer interested.

5. Why should he have to tell you why he was busy?

   He was busy, dont play childish games just talk to him.

   If he keeps doing it then maybe its something to be a little concerned about.

6. Id still go in the date but just for fun and a good time. He is showing that he is too busy to invest in anything serious at the moment if he can’t even text “hey you might not hear from me for a while”. That’s common courtesy when you like someone

7. you sound overly anxious and you need to deal with that before dating because, believe me,, you will just end up torpedoing the next one too.

8. They told you why, relax.