Say, you guys just had sex, and now it’s time for cuddling and sleeping. And they just touch you down there, but not to get you hard for another round, only because it’s fun to play with, or it gives them comfort.
I like touching my partner’s dick, just for comfort, but sometimes it’s mistaken as me getting him hard for another round. Some guy even doesn’t let me touch it.
What about you? Would you let them touch you, when THERE’S NO SEX AFTERWARDS EVEN IF YOU GET HARD?
Silly question I know. Just me being curious. There’s no right or wrong here. Feel free to state your preference.
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I’d be happy if I could go to sleep with my partner holding my dick 😄
Though … guys being guys, yeah it’s probably going to end up erect frequently.
No, hate it, like put you on fire and give up.
I definitely wouldn’t say no.
Nah, not for me. If we’ve just had sex, potentially I’m too sensitive to be played with. If I’m not too sensitive, it’ll likely just get me in the mood for another round.
I wouldn’t mind if my partner plays with it but if you continue stroking my hard penis I will get horny and want more.
I mean imagine someone playing with your clit.
There are days where I give my wife oral and get her to orgasm and that’s it. She just isn’t able to have sex that day but is really horny so I help her out. Can’t see why some dick fondling wouldn’t be a nice time for me even if I didn’t get sex out of it.
My wife often holds my dick when we go to bed. Honestly I really like it now although it was odd for me the first time.
I’d like it a lot
My wife does it frequently. Usually w/ a comment similar to “I luv just feeling your cock” or “I just wanna fondle you” most of the time it is after sex but sometimes it sitting on the couch or laying in bed. I’ve adjusted to the fact that it won’t always lead to sex … right away. But eventually I will get my relief because she very rarely turns me down.
I really like it. It’s comforting, gently possessive. I actually ask for it.
I can’t go to sleep with an erection. I would definitely like this type of play before sex, even if it’s awhile before sex. If done after sex, I would need to come again or it could get uncomfortable.
I do this with my partner a lot. Either hand or mouth. If he has already came twice then it’s not usually likely to make him hard again though that also depends how much movement I put into it I guess. I find it really comforting to have him in my hand or mouth when he is soft. In the event that he does get hard again, sometimes that’ll lead to him cumming again but if I am tired (as usually it is my just before sleep move) then he will probably masturbate and cum over me when I’m asleep (he has consent to do that)
No
Seems like a waste of good wood to me.
I love fondling their balls and dick afterwards & sometimes we both fall asleep while their dick is in my hand! It’s like a stress reliever: squishy and comforting.
As long as she communicated it with me then yes
I’d probably get hard. So long as the intention was made clear I wouldn’t mind. Probably do the same and cop a comfort-feel of her myself.
I enjoy this. Even if it’s just watching a movie or something, I like it when my wife is just having fun with my dick. I wish she did it more often tho lol.
My misses does this vety frequenty and we both normally fall asleep iveearny to nit get hard and relax.
At the start my fella down below was ready for action every time she held and slept.
I’m a guy who loves this. If it’s right after sex I will sometimes get hard again, sometimes not. Either is lovely.
If we’re done with any sexytimes then I’d rather have no fondling of the dick, it’s very distracting and makes it very difficult for me to relax
My wife does all the time and I love it it’s sensual and relaxing at the same time.
You are welcome to it! I appreciate and find comfort in all aspects of your vagina. I enjoy feeling it, so soft, moist, warm. It is a lovely, safe place to be. I would be happy you have this in common with me and would want to touch me after sex, until we both fall asleep. Giving me another hard-on, while falling asleep, would spiral me into some very elaborate-hot-sex-dreams. Most evenings, my dick must be be hard nearly 50 percent of the night – why not open the night of sex dreams with a solid hard-on from messing with me. I hope you wouldn’t mind an extensive load of cum in the morning which would surely happen if I was teased asleep.
I’d have no issues with.
Well i will be honest with you, one of my ex girlfriend was “crazy about” holding my dick like a teddy when we was about to sleep and i didn’t felt unconfortable as long as she talk to me about it earlier. She enjoy doing it and that wasn’t such a problem for me. But i want to emphase that we was together, a couple and maybe the experience would have been different with a random girl or a random boy in your case.
Regularly fall asleep with the wife stroking my dick or fondling my balls. Yes I get hard as a rock. But she says it relaxes her and she drifts off while doing it. I would love her to finish but also love to give her what she wants.
Plus it often leads to great morning sex before work because she says she needs to finish what she started.
My gf does this. And not just after sex. She does it randomly throughout the day. She calls it nonsexual genital touching. I used to be confused and sometimes frustrated. Still happens sometimes. For her it is comfort but for me I don’t empathize. I can’t imagine caressing her vajj in a nonsexual way but 🤷🏽♂️. It can be frustrating on days where she has said she isn’t up for sexytime. It can come across as teasing or taunting even though it is unintentional.
I don’t mind it. Plus my wife twitches in her sleep, so I get a random tug which is nice
My boyfriend LOVES this. For him its a comfort thing and has a hard time falling asleep if hes not getting his “rubbies” as I call them. We have sex regularly and he doesnt get hard when im just touching him. Sometimes he does but most of the time its just a comfort thing for him.