Our hoco is Saturday and there is this girl I want to date she’s a cheerleader and plays basketball, last year my friends were trying to get me with her but I was being a little old looking down and doing stupid stuff but now I got 2 classes with her and I sometimes talk too her, our hoco is a few hours away and I’m having a after party I think the best move to ask her to be my girl would be a the party but i I’m a little nervous because idk how she’ll react
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You should go for it you will regret it later
There are three “worst case scenarios”
1: you ask her she says no. The thing with this is that attractive women have attractive friends. So if you are respectful and take the rejection maturely, there is a reasonable chance that she will introduce you to her friends.
2: she says something horrible like laughs at you. Again, this is pretty much of a win, because then you know that she is a horrible human being who is still emotionally trapped in high school and thought that “mean girls” was a documentary and a training program. Crush is permanently disabled.
3: you don’t ask her. 20 years from now you run into her on line at the bank. She has a couple of kids waiting in the car, so no possibility of catching up. But just before the teller calls you up she says “I had such a crush on you back then, I dropped all sorts of hints, but when you didn’t take me up on them and ask me out, I assumed that you weren’t attracted to me because of my (her most endearing characteristic)
Regret is the devil.
Just ask her. Make your intentions clear. If you invite her to your party, she will very likely assume that she is there as a friend. Arrange to meet her sooner.