Matched on Hinge. Only after 3 dates, he bought me expensive lingerie which seems really different to me… He also made implications of me meeting his parents this weekend and that his parents would like me. I said it feels too soon and asked him if he always brings girls home really quickly like this, and he said “no”.
He seemed like he’s been really into me after the first date, always messaging “good morning” and “good night”, constantly wanting to see me again and always calling me every moment he gets a break at work or when he knows I’m done work, he’ll want me to stay on the phone with him while he’s still working away (not really saying anything on the phone). If I say I’m going to hang up to do other things and so he can focus on his work, he says, “No! Don’t go” or he’ll say he’s fine with it, but call back again 10-15 mins later…
On top of all this, on the second and third date, I think I may have seen him accidentally open his dating app in front of me a couple of times but quickly closed it out which is a bit confusing. He started saying he misses me while he’s at work after the second date…
Is he serious or am I about to be a victim of love bombing? I asked my girlfriends what they think and they said he’s really good looking and maybe I should bring him around for a better opinion of his authenticity. I mentioned it to him in passing and he said he’s down to meet them. I asked him if he thought it was too soon for us to meet each other’s family and friends and he said “we’re eventually going to meet them anyway, it doesn’t matter”.
Btw, we’re 31yos… is all this weird or is it just me?
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Yeah meeting the parents after three dates is weird af unless it’s accidental.
Lol he’s checking dating app while you in a date hahaha.
Beware maybe he thinks you tick the boxes to be his main bitch.
There are so many dudes in dating apps fucking around behind their partners back.
As a man….I never move this fast so something is weird.
Good looking? Love bombing? Opening the app multiple times while on a date with you? Be prepared to be added to his harem.
Dude sounds like a weirdo tbh
It’s a little strange (the parents thing is stranger imo) but it sounds like more of an awkward positive gesture than something bad to me. You’re welcome to put up any walls or pace you’d like… just be clear to him… but I’ve known women who would enjoy that as a gift.
If he is love bombing he’s such a head case that your translation here revealed no red flag to me.