Not sure if this is the right place to post this but there is a woman at work that I have so much attractions towards. I even think she may be attracted to me as I catch her looking at me quite a lot.
But the context is, she is a lot older (in her 40s I’d say) and married, while I’m young (in my 20s). Nothing will ever happen I know that, however that doesn’t stop my mind. I’m so attracted to her. I’ve fantasized about her at home multiple times, every time I see her at work I want her.
How the hell do I deal with these feelings!
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U ignore them and keep ur relationship professional
U can touch urself to the thought of her at night but besides tht just stay professional and ignore her
I do this with a coworker and it’s fine as long as you accept that nothing will ever happen. Fantasizing will not hurt anyone
You are no different than every other employee in the world, everyone fantasizes about someone at work and when that someone is not ‘available’ being married or in a relationship, some cross the line and others don’t.
Crossing the line for your hyped up fantasy leads to nothing but disaster, broken homes etc.
You need to find yourself and age appropriate, single girlfriend to unload your balls on plain and simple.
This is the definition of lust. Youll move on just masterbate before work honestly works very well