how can i give a blow job??

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1. Don’t focus on pleasing him or you’ll overthink the process. Go with the flow. Start by gently licking the tip, then suck it. Slowly go down his shaft more and more. Get it nice and wet with saliva, spit on it too. Start to pick up the pace and go a bit faster and deeper. A lot of men get off to deep throating. Use hands if you need to and very gently suck the balls! Make eye contact every once in a while. Moan to show you enjoy giving him head. Hope that helps. Everyone is different though. Maybe practice sucking on your finger to see how the sucking motion feels. Not all men can cum from oral sex either. You can always ask your man too to guide you and tell you what he likes and doesn’t like.

2. In the FAQ here you’ll find a lot of basic information

3. Text your BF and ask him what his fantasy BJ would be like in great detail. If he half way knows what he’s doing with you he’ll pretty much give you instructions through his fantasy.

4. Friction and enthusiasm is the name of the game. And no teeth.

   As for him not cumming… Is it just a matter of how long it takes? Like, are you getting tired before he reaches climax? Is he usually able to orgasm from a blowjob, like with previous partners? Have you tried asking him what he likes?