Hey everyone, 20 m here. I’m just really confused about my sexuality. I have been with several girls in the last three years and I absolutely love having sex with girls. It comes very natural and easy for me to assume a masculine figure in the bedroom when I am with a woman.
However, I love to be in the receiving end of sex with another man. I have done this three times in the last year and it was absolutely amazing everytime. Some of the best, most intense orgasms I’ve ever had (better than when I had sex with females).
The big issue is that I don’t find guys attractive at all, and every single time I’ve ever let a guy out it in me, I’ve felt extreme and overbearing dread after we finished having sex. I never felt that bad after sex with girls. I have always felt attracted to females, and the only reason I started having sex with guys was because I loved playing with my asshole.
It really bothers me that I cannot accurately pinpoint what to call my sexuality. I enjoy sex with guys and girls both, but it’s so much better when in the one on the bottom. I am not romantically attracted to guys. I don’t even look at guys and think “woah, he’s hot” like I do with girls. I can’t ever see myself being with a guy like a relationship, but I can’t see myself going my whole life without receiving anal either. I mean yeah, there’s toys. But it’s not the same.
I’m at a loss for what to do here. Please help
5 comments
Avoid the need for labels
Pegging is a thing, so is self pleasure with anal toys
You’re not alone in your desires
Communicate your desires to partners plainly and honestly
Sounds like you need a woman that is into pegging. Best of both worlds for you right there.
Your sexuality is still evolving. I present cis male, and I’m in a monogamous relationship with a woman, but I had my adventures in the past and still like to look at cocks and receive anal. She isn’t really into ass play, so I keep that for myself. She knows I’m committed to her, our family, and our future, but I’m still a dude who likes cock. This works for us.
Maybe you’re Bi-sexual? It’s ok
A lesbian with a fetish for dudes? Takes all sorts to make a world