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if i’ll be too tight or wet enough for him
Depends, but primarily my safety. Some folks pull a jekyll and Hyde.
After that, probably communication. Some folks are eerily silent.
I worry about him finishing quickly, having a long refractory period and having a really stiff and monotonous stroke game. Although I have no trouble guiding him and telling him what I like if the last comes up. Not much to be done in the moment about the first two
I used to be really concerned about how my body looked, but I quickly got over that once I became more sexually active
I’m more worried that he won’t enjoy himself because I’m doing a bad job. Insecurities 😅
Mostly worried about getting naked in front of a new person. It takes a bit for me to be comfortable doing that.
If it’s a man I’m sleeping with, I guess safety and selfishness will also be on my radar.
If it’s a woman, I’d be worried about my stamina with my fingers (I have issues with my hands).
If he was even worth the time
Will he be terrible.
Diseases. 100% diseases
I worry most about how I’ll feel after. This is largely dependent on whether or not there’s any aftercare.
I’m worried if I’ll feel a connection during sex, sometimes I don’t then I end up not feeling good about the whole encounter but when I do it’s really nice and I’m satisfied even if I don’t cum
Pain, std, secret videos, stealthing, rape, shit sex
How long they will last, but not in the way others think. For me, I don’t enjoy when they last a long time. A quick session is way more preferable to me
Safety, also anxiety over whether it will be good or disappointing
Does he actually know the importance of foreplay and how to pleasure a women? Is he going to ask “did you cum yet?” Is he even going to be worth my time?
I get reoccurring infections (PH levels) so it always scares me incase they can smell it or make me feel bad about myself. Even though I try everything humanly possibly to prevent it. Sex is one of my main triggers.
I honestly get really nervous about seeing a new dick 😂