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I think one of the most obvious signs would be if she’s super flirty and touching you a lot, but then again, i’m weird and get super nervous and try to hide that I want to
Rather than look for signs that there’s a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, how about enjoying the rainbow and see if the path opens up?
Flirting verbally leads to flirting physically. Flirting physically leads to interacting intimately (hand holding, kissing, etc). Obviously that intimacy leads to sex. If you’re at all into her, just enjoy the ride. It’s ALL fun.
Low-key: no clue, maybe some flirting you might intentionally or unintentionally misunderstand.
Obvious: all her clothes is off in front of you.
This probably won’t make much sense but there’s a certain look people do when they want more, called “bedroom eyes”
The better you know the person the easier it is to pick up on their signals. So take time getting to know them, everyone is a little different : )
The only relevant sign is when you ask her if she wants to and she enthusiastically says yes.
If she’s in the process of going down on you, that’s generally a good sign.
If she starts kissing you and climbs on top of you, straddles you, and starts taking off your clothes
If she grabs your meat, might mean something
I’d start here:
[Signs she’s into you](https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw)
Just slowly and comfortably progress the situation and you’ll know if she wants the d or not. I wouldn’t assume anything at home plate without running over the other bases
As a female, I get a lot more touchy/feely than necessary. If we’re sitting, I’ll rub that inner thigh area strategically.
It’ll be super obvious hard to miss. When girls want you they make it known
If she’s spreading her legs for you while liquids are coming out of her vagina, she either wants the d or giving birth
I was on a date in my college town at a town dive bar.
All college students went to two bars on the main street of town.
A girl I had a class with was all alone, cruising the bar. Seriously, 8+/10, 23 or so, alone at a bar w no friends?
I messaged her on FB a few days later. Took her to dinner and she got what she wanted after.
It was great.
She = always wants the D. Women have and always will want sex more than guys do. Before they played shy about it. But now it’s “pull over lets fuck” in the middle of the road
I just initiate contact to see if they are ok with it, and see if they keep touching me. there’s normally a vibe like I know they wanna do something or not. Quite often I’ll say something sexual and see how they react. turn the conversation sexual and see if she is comfortable with talking like that see how much she contributes to it also. obviously don’t just touch her up like when i say touch I mean like try to get a hug or touch her shoulders places that are not sexual.
Low key, lots of intense eye contact, she will find any excuse to get close to you and touch you in some way. She will get as close to you as possible. More aggressive women will cut off your escape to keep you engaged.
She will eventually step up her tactics, she’ll ask you for a kiss, touch you more on the chest etc… she’ll use innuendo or blatantly sexual comments. She will get more provocative
She will make sure to invite you over to her place one on one. If invited over, don’t expect sex but if invited over only accept if you are ready to smash or the boundaries are clearly defined. Turning a woman down is no fun, I either felt guilty if she was nice about it. Or shit went sideways quickly because she was pissed, yes, it happens to guys too.
“wants the d” honey does your mommy know you’re on reddit?
A good sign would be after you take her hand in marriage, you heathen sinner.
Well, when she teases you and doesn’t back off when you reciprocate… Or when she is rubbing-clinging herself on your body, the bedroom eyes mostly involved
She grabs it