Hello everyone. Me and my gf have been together for over 3 years now, and are quite experienced in having some really kinky freaky sex. She is more dominant then I am, but I have been getting a lot better at playing the Dom role as of late. We are long distance but see each other a couple times a month. Tonight we’ve have planned that I am going to have my way with her, and while have a lot of ideas for what I could do, I would appreciate any advice from women on what turns them on, things that make them feel submissive, even general words or phrases to help establish my control.
Feel free to comment or Dm if you have any helpful advice or thoughts!
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Praises such as good girl when she is doing something right and bad girl when she does something wrong go a long way. Communication is everything in these type of situations. Does she enjoy being forced? Is she ok with being “tied” to a bed? You need to know the boundaries before so you don’t cross any. If it is verbal Dom, my wife enjoys when I talk about using her for my sexual gratification while in the process. “This pussy is mine you hear me?” “I’ll tell you when I want you to cum” simple phases really work wonders especially if they don’t seem forced. The verbal aspect is the make or break as to whether my wife gets off or has an insane orgasm. When I can tell she is getting to the point and about to cum, I’ll go to partial penetration to pushing as deep and had as I can saying things like “Go ahead and cum baby girl, good girl that’s right keep grinding, it’s ok.”
Any chance you’re into shibari? Tying your partner up is amazingly fun and super dominant! If you’re new, the bunny ear tie is fairly simple and super hot!