I’ve [26F] been seeing this guy [30M] for 3-4 months after we connected on bumble. We’ve been going on 2 or 3 dates each week since we met.
We both want something serious and we had the exclusive talk a few weeks ago, but it was pretty clear that it was already happening. Neither of us went on any other dates since we met back in July. I’ve met his friends a bunch of times and see them regularly now. He’s met my friends too, and we’ve both told our parents about one another.
I guess now I’m kinda waiting for him to ask me to be his girlfriend. I’d hope he knows that’s the next step for him to take. I would rather wait for him to ask me out than to bring it up myself, because it’ll mean a lot to me. I don’t want to rush or be impatient and I want to enjoy the moments with him. I know it’s only been a few months, but at the same time everything else is moving quickly like our friends and family knowing about each other. Any advice?
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Maybe I’m wrong, but I think after you’ve had the exclusivity talk you’re basically boyfriend/girlfriend. Does another conversation need to happen?
He has prolly assumed u are bf and gf.
Maybe it’ll mean a lot to him if you bring it up.
I think standard advice for guys is to not be the one to bring this up as well. So I wouldn’t get upset if he doesn’t bring it up.
Out of curiousity why don’t you want to ask him?