Im going to a field party today, basically they play loud music, put up some lights and a shit ton of alcohol.
I never know what to do? I get really bored dancing and i suck at going along with things, i just get really self conscious and kinda freeze up, my friends are already disappointed im coming and really dont want to be a bummer
Does any one maybe have a tip on how not to get bored? I cant hear anyone so i struggle to make conversation and it just isnt fit for this kind of event
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Try considering what you would do if you were stuck there alone
1 get drunk
2 talk to people
Thats all you need! Just ask them how they know the host and your night will flyby.
1 get drunk
2 talk to people
Thats all you need! Just ask them how they know the host and your night will flyby.
> my friends are already disappointed im coming
Wait, what? Can you elaborate? They expressed this explicitly to you?
You won’t get bored if you are going there for the right reasons.
The people who enjoy going to parties enjoy it because they can drink together, play drinking games maybe, chat with their friends but also make new ones, dance, and of course the single people are looking for other single people to flirt with.
If none of these things sound appealing to you, who is it you’re doing a favor for by going? 🙂 Enjoy yourself doing whatever element of parties are enjoyable to you.