I don’t know if it’s a porn thing or what, but I NEVER cum from a blowjob/handjob or hell even a foot job. My wife is a goddess when it comes to dick sucking. They feel amazing, I’m in heaven and when they’re at their peak I feel like my brains are being fucked out by her mouth.
But I never go over the edge and it’s frustrating. It makes me feel like crap and while she’s nice enough to not care about it, I am afraid it makes her feel like she’s not attractive enough or whatever.
Is this a porn thing tho? I guess even in porn, how do they make it happen? Anyone have any tips?
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yes if its good. sometimes i cant help it i just pop.
I’ve never cum from head* and I know a few other guys who also haven’t
* I have cum from head once but it’s because I jerked off and when I was about to cum she took over. Even after having her take over when I was about to finish it still took a few minutes and I was worried I might lose it. She gave incredible head too.
My gf’s pretty good, but I won’t cum with blowjobs: guess we’re in the same spot
Yeah I cum from hj and bj
I had to “learn” how to do it. I can’t say it’ll work for everyone but my wife and I both decided that I’d stop masturbating for a couple of weeks and we’d try blowjobs and handjobs regularly. This seemed to work in lowering my orgasm threshold and I think my mind got used to connecting the sensations of her hands or mouth to cumming, and it got easier and easier. Now I don’t have have to blue balled or anything, it just works easily every time.
All of the men i’ve been with have come from handjobs and blowjobs (and one, from footjobs). I don’t think i’ve done anything special.
Do you come from your own stimulation? Can you teach her any of those skills? Is there a specific kink or storyline that you love to include? Can she be part of that? How about you jerking into her mouth and her licking the tip?
On the regular, yes
Hj and BJ yes, definitely. Foot job never tried
Yup, depends on skill, mood and comfort, fe: my ex couldn’t make me cum from blowjobs, but hand, thigh and feetjobs, also dry humping made me do so
Every guy I’ve been with has cum from blowjobs. It’s only from Reddit that I hear about a ton of guys not being able to cum from bjs 🤷🏻♀️
Honestly it all depends on the technique. I’ve definitely busted from head/a handjob before but I’ve also had a more than a few times where the girl was going until her jaw was tired and couldn’t get me to cum. I’ve never really gotten a full on footjob so I can’t comment on that, though.
Well, I haven’t had the last one, but I haven’t from the other two either
No worries here – here’s the skinny…
As most guys start masterbating LONG before they ever have sex, they train themselves into the perfect rhythm, perfect grip, perfect angle, ‘perfect session’
So, when they start having sex with other people, it’s hard to really get the same result. That, often, then starts playing with their minds and et voila – they are posting on REDDIT…
Sound like you?
All you need to do is put LESS pressure on yourself, think about LESS often, and start masterbating LESS.
Just relax and enjoy it. If it happens it happens, and if not then wooooah you’d be the top guy to go to with all that stamina…
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Moral of story. Relax, enjoy and party on!
Cum from anything done long enough, haven’t had a foot job since I was 16 so don’t know about that.
It’s a bit of work. But I can.
Every man I have given a blowjob to has cum, but some men need more consistent pressure than others.
No need to cum, just enjoy the feeling and hopefully orgasm.
I have a hard time orgasming from a blowjob. It feels good, but there is a weird mental place required that is hard for me to get to. I think it’s really just that I am not comfortable with that level of attention.
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It’s rare. It took my wife years to do but she cab and before that only if a girl could basically be facefucked to some light level.
I’ve always been able to cum from handjobs, but alot of girls get tired after like 2 minutes and it becomes obvious. Then I lose all interest.
I almost never come from head. Handy’s, yeah, but I was 16 at the time. Back then bj’s worked to. And a strong wind, that worked.
If she knows what she’s doing I’ll cum from a bj and hj.
As for the foot job, I tried it twice and didn’t come either times. There’s just not enough stimulation from a footjob.
No I don’t. I have experience with plenty of women and I came from handjob twice ever, never from blowjob.