Can a woman give some insight on this I’m extremely confused.
To make a long story short, I have been ignoring this woman at work who has been flirting with me because I’m married.
I have been doing this for months now but I still feel she is interested and tries to talk to me or joke or flirt when possible.
Recently I felt guilt for ignoring her and decided to just be normal but to my surprise she was mean and started ignoring me.
Today I decided to ignore her only to notice she is interested again.
Am I missing something, have been out of the game for long or is she just an odd ball?
Thanks appreciate the feed back
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Sounds like an issue for HR. You have stated your space and intentions and it should be respected. It has nothing to so woman, it has everything to so with just the actual person.
Maybe she’s not interested, you jus took it the wrong way …
Are you sure she was flirting? Women can be nice to men without wanting sex, believe it or not. Sounds so far that she was nice to you, you ignored her, she got mad about it, you were nice again, she got her hopes up for a normal relationship and now you’re ignoring her again. From her pov you look like a capricious, unpredictable mess. I’m what world would she not logically act confused by this?
If she is flirting with you, and then when you talk to her she is mean…that just doesn’t add up. Are you sure she isn’t just friendly and maybe an introvert?
I tend to act hyperactive when I am friendly, like I go overboard, but then when it’s over, I just act kind of disinterested and like I need space.
Some people are attracted to rejection.
I’ve known someone like that. She will never be happy, because she falls in love with people that don’t want her. The moment they reciprocate that love she is no longer attracted to them.
It’s confusing from the outside, but it’s really frustrating being that person. They tend to attract abusive partners.