So I’ve always been sexually active so it’s hard for me to imagine that I’m “super tight”, however my boyfriend used to get upset when I tightened my walls because he said it was uncomfortable. Why would that be? Most women brag about how tightening the vagina makes men cum quick but my recent ex hated it. He always says he likes me relaxed and I have a natural grip but it feels better to me when I hold it in so idk how to please us both. Why does he feel like that? Can anyone else relate ?
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The amount of a sexual activity you have does nothing to alter how snug a vagina is
With that out of the way, yup I have had this issue. My pussy is so strong I could shuck corn with it 😂 I kind of clamp down whenever I’m aroused, and it was uncomfortable for my last ex
I basically started doing slow motion kegels/pelvic floor exercises so that I would have more control over how tight I was making myself, and keep it somewhere in the middle where we were both happy. Didn’t take that long to figure out, but I’m pretty good at isolating my muscles
I can relate somewhat. I had to have reconstructive surgery (still need another on the anal wall) and it’s left me permanently (doctors and pelvic floor PT’s words) “tighter than a virgin.”. Yay? I think? Have difficulty convincing people that I actually have prescribed vibrator. What I’ve never encountered is a man that complained about that or my using my kegals during sex. That’s a foreign concept. Unless, and this could make a difference, is he by chance uncut?
Yeah, you’re squeezing too hard. Men differ in their level of sensitivity and it’s not based on their size either. Some like a little pressure, some like a lot of pressure and some like none.