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Seeing as you used the word “dom” I’m assuming this is a kink thing, and not just an insult. You’d probably get more and better advice from r/BDSMadvice
I’d also suggest you check out a good general introduction to kink. SM 101, The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, or Screw The Roses Send Me The Thorns all come to mind. Evie Lupine on YouTube is also worthwhile although she’s more oriented towards specific subjects.
Given that this is long distance, your primary tools are going to be tone of voice and choice of words. I learned to use these by copying fictional characters that had the presentation I wanted. My delivery now is mostly based on Alucard from Hellsing and Anthony Hopkins as Hannibal Lecter.