Men, how often do you feel lonely or needy?

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1. A lot of guys are starved of basic connection to others so getting some is a great feeling. Have hobbies and things you enjoy doing by yourself.

2. All the time

3. Almost never, but its because I live with my girlfriend.

4. Pretty much never. But a lot of my friends need to spend time with friends very regularly or they get lonely. It’s not weird for guys to feel alone. Particularly if you’re not the solitary type.

5. Almost never. I have a few close friends who are like brothers and I met my wife in my early 20s. Cultivate good relationships and you’re golden.

6. Every hour of everyday.

   Nobody cares, though. To be fair, my emotional state is my responsibility.

7. A few times a week. Im around people at work and with my job I’m pretty much bound to talk to at least 20-30 people a day that aren’t my coworkers but when I get home since I m basically living alone now and the few friends I have live far away and I’m single it does get very lonely and quiet sometimes.

   I’m a pretty introverted person and I’m very socially awkward so I tend to stay home in weekends and the bars in my area tend to attract people that are at least 10 years older than me so I’m kinda sol on that one.

   I do go make it a point to to see either my grandmother one the weekends usually Sunday or I take a weekend trip to go see my buddy in college every month or so.

8. Way too often and I’m married so that makes me feel worse

9. Every other week. I handle it by having a bunch of different voice chat rooms i frequent on discord.

10. I often feel lonely. I work a lot to make up for it, which doesn’t exactly give me any time to go out and meet someone new. My main interaction with the fairer sex is my short daily conversation with my ex-wife to check on the kids and see how she is doing.

11. Can’t remember the last time I didn’t feel lonely.

12. Lonely…. Daily

13. Yes.

14. I work a 40h/week job and attend uni as well, but the loneliness creeps in everyday. I keep a closed circle of friends. I’m popular and good at both my work and my studies, a straight A kid, and I’m the only first year associate who got promoted (though it’s temporary) last week. I still feel pretty lonely a lot of times, can’t help it. Everytime that happens I just plug my earbuds in and listen to some pull-me-up ish music.

15. All the time alone but never needy because i like being alone, i hate being with people but i get why most men are lonely and are bad with that.