My boyfriend broke up with me today out of nowhere,

he even told me he still loved me and there was no reason.
he just wants to try something new.

now i want to do a random hookup. just becouse im angry and i think i need something fresh too to get my mind off things.

BUT FUCKING HELL! i might be ugly or something becouse NOTHING HITS

ive tried using some apps like “her” and “tinder”
i dont care for the gender or anything i just want a hookup.
AND ALL THE MEN I WRITE TO CANT KEEP A CONVO

and there is no woman version of Grindr for android so i guess im just going to go to bed dry

any tips are gladly taken

thanks for coming to my rant

9 comments

  1. You’re searching for a valve for all your stress and anger and that’s understandable.
    Maybe this is also hindering you from having a chat with someone.

  4. Go to the bar meet them in person, approach the guy you want to hook up with I mean guys no what it means when a woman approaches, pretty much a for sure deal. If the first guy doesn’t take I’m sure someone will.

  5. Hooking up with someone to deal with the pain and the hurt you’re feeling is the worst idea you could have. You’re hurting and need to heal another guy won’t fix that for you and ultimately it’s at your own detriment. Society at the moment promotes hookup culture but as studies have shown and real life experiences it doesn’t benefit women at all & it’s definitely not a solution to solving your issues.

    I’m not saying don’t have sex but I’m saying managing stress & pain by using sex only ends badly. You might want to heal yourself first and then if you want to hookup with someone because you genuinely want to great but as a method of therapy it won’t work or heal the pain you feel right now.

  8. Trying to suppress those feelings with sexual pleasure will leave you feeling worse. Something to consider.

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