She said she really likes me and even feels “vulnerable” around me. I’ve setup 3 out of the 4 dates we’ve been on but the only thing that bothers me is that she never initiated contact. We Snapchat every few hours throughout the day since we are both busy with school and me with work and her with sports. We’re both 21. She said after the last date that she also really enjoys hanging out with me and before she left she said that she wanted to hang out again really soon, we even talked for 30 minutes in her driveway before she left.
The only thing that I don’t know about how to go about this is the lack of initiation of contact on her part. I feel as though she could not be actually interested.
Should I just text her and see if she wants to hangout this weekend?
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People can have all kinds of ideas or habits around initiating contact or proposing dates. As the man (I assume?), it’s likely going to fall on your a bit more at first. Sounds like she’s into you, from everything you’ve said here, so I wouldn’t overthink this. If you like her, keep things going. You can also totally bring it up that you feel it’s a bit one-sided. Share your feelings about that and see what hers are.
It sounds like she’s just trying to play it cool and doesn’t want to come across as needy or clingy.