I late 20s m work with a mid 20s f, had a thing for her until I found out she had been secretly seeing another guy roughly 20 years older that I know. Still struggling to move on.
Somehow ended up confessing to her all sorts of bad things I tell myself about myself for hours. I can’t simply cut her off because we work together and honestly I don’t want to. But before and after this I know I wasn’t and am still not an option. So I’m stuck in a weird a** limbo type of place instead. Anyone ever gone through this before? I’d appreciate the advice.
I knew since the first time I’ve met her and most the time since that I am incredibly attracted to her. However she looks way better than me. And also the other guy beat me to having a romantic connection. So that’s why I haven’t asked her out. What’s a good way to not get attached to her?
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I ignore/ avoid women I work with all the time. Tension creates attraction
Man how are you gonna hear she’s hooking up with a dude her father’s age, that you also know, and not stop even looking in her direction?? Have some self respect
Bite the bullet and ask her out, then you’ll have your answer.
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