(M/33) My (f/30) wife is a smart, beautiful, caring person with a great group of friends, career etc

She has helped push me to be a better person in many ways

At the same time, I feel like I got myself into a tough situation where our personalities just don’t match or that I was just a different person when I married her..now I am more confident, aware

After a fair amount of disagreements, etc. we are in therapy and trying to work on the relationship

I even moved to the country she immigrated to so she could get her Canadian PR, meanwhile, we are also applying for US PR..

As we go thru the immigration paperwork, I’m just tired..i don’t want to give up But also, I feel like if we thru the immigration process and she gets a PR and we still decide to end it…I’ll feel..angry about it

Is this a normal way to feel or am I being too paranoid?

TL;DR: moved to Canada to live with wife (her career took her back), we have had serious ups and downs and are in couples therapy. It’s time to apply for her conditional PR for US to be removed, I’m not sure what to do, as I don’t want to divorce and then her get a PR out of the relationship, is this normal?

4 comments
  1. You posted this earlier on this sub already.

    Is there a different answer you’re looking for this time that you didn’t previously receive?

  2. Sounds petty to me. Why would you want your ex wife to fail? Why does the thought of her getting what she wants irritate you?

  3. Why the fuck do you keep posting this same thing? Christ, shit or get off the pot already. We get it, you hate your wife.

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