I (21 f) all of a sudden stopped feeling sexual pleasure or even feeling happy. I tried getting frisky with my (23 m) boyfriend but after like 10 minutes of blankly staring at him I told him I’m not feeling anything. I love to please him and love him so much so i don’t think it’s a relationship issue like I don’t love him anymore or am no longer attracted to him. I love him more than anything. I feel like I have to pretend to be happy or pretend that I’m feeling good during fun time. Like I’m a robot. I’ve never had this happen before and don’t know why it started now. I don’t feel pleasure from him but I do when I masturbate with toys so idk what’s happening.
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Any chance you are suffering from depression?
It sounds like you might be having an acute episode of depression, anhedonia or similar. Ask your doctor about it.
If you feel fine on your own and not with him, and it’s not a relationship problem, could it be performance anxiety?