Girlfriend wants to do it dry. she’s a anal virgin but likes pain. I’m fine with the idea but I’ve heard it can cause like hospital going issues

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  1. Very dangerous. Like, “could cause permanent rectal injury” kind of dangerous. Use lube. It’s absolutely mandatory for safe anal.

  2. >how dangerous is dry anal?

    You can tear and fissure the anus. This can cause infections. It can also irritate the head of your penis and rub the shaft raw. All in all, alot of discomfort can be the outcome.

  3. It’s not just pain, it can cause actual physical damage…..and yes…like hospital going issues and PERMANENT damage

  4. Lots of lube or no go. Period.

    She can get her pain in other ways. Get a flog or paddle, nipple clamps, anything. But please don’t go in dry. Ever.

  5. What are all these people saying. Unless you’ve got a 45 inch BBC shoving up her butt it won’t just kill you or your girlfriend like that lol. Maybe a bit of skin damage but nothing too serious out of nowhere.

    It will however be painful to her AND you as it’s like pounding sandpaper. The bodily fluids will be acting as lube but I’d suggest at least a slight amount of spit or real lube.

  6. It’s perfectly fine for a lot of people. The anus has a mucous lining. It really depends on the person. Go slow if she really wants to give it a shot. Your precum will help too.

  7. Lube isn’t mandatory, I’m a woman and can comfortably do anal on the spot without needing lube (no my man doesn’t have a small dick), I get so wet that that’s enough used as lube, no need for anything extra.

    Actually dry dry though, I don’t recommend it, don’t see the point, she’d probably bleed and that’s a gentle scenario.

  8. yeah no, don’t do that, to this day (5 years later) I still suffer bleeding from the time I had dry anal. use lube, please.

  9. #Doctor here. This is real life, not a damned porno.

    You ~~could~~ will literally tear her anal sphincter and the anal canal, requiring multiple very painful stitches. Complications include fecal incontinence (no control over passing shit), prolonged bleeding, fissures, perineal rupture and as others have pointed out, permanent damage.
    And that’s only to her. The friction will you badly as well.

    Pain fetish is one thing, what she wants you to do is pure stupidity. Be a good dude, use lots of lube.

  10. You won’t be able to get it in. Anus isn’t self lubricating like the vagina, so the likihood of getting inside is very low. But even if you could, it will be extremely painful for both of you. Especially if you are cut. The lack of foreskin makes the skin on the penis tear much more easily, abd the walls of the anus are fragile aswell. She would likely end up with a fissure and you’d end up with friction sores. One or both of you would end up going to the doctor. Dry anal is the polar opposite of pleasurable. Don’t try this, please please please use lube and a condom

  11. So I don’t think this is considered dry anal but when me and my bf have anal sex we always start with having vaginal sex to get me in the mood then slowly move to having anal sex. That way I’m relaxed and aroused because I hate the feeling of lubricant. This way his penis is already “wet” and so on. But yes I agree dry anal wouldn’t be the way to go. Also don’t put your penis back into the vagina cause it can cause infections.

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