So I’ve never enjoyed actual intercourse. 35 now, lost my virginity at 19. From day 1 sex was a bit of a letdown. I love the intimacy and foreplay, but sex has never felt good. I’ve even tried cutting out masterbation for a couple months to reset my body thinking it was death grip syndrome. It doesn’t seem to be that.
My penis is not small. It’s just over 4 inches around and 6 inches long. But I barely feel anything. Does anyone know of any kind of sensitivity gels I could try?
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Yes they do, but don’t buy cheap ones they may irritate your partner, also make sure it’s to sensitize because ones to desensitize are far more popular. I have this problem also. Sex will be amazing but I’ll often have to stop because they get sore. The ones I’ve tried helped but still was difficult to finish. If you find one that works great id love to know, I’ll do the same
You can make your own with a drop of peppermint oil and some moisturizing lotion. Smells great and makes the skin all tingly. Not too much oil though or it will feel burny.
Warming lubes might be of use for you.
out of curiosity are you ‘cut’ so to speak? i got the snip at birth and i have always wondered if it dulled my nerves. im larger than average and love foreplay and even then i can usually only cum from piv if im so backed up that i practically flood her after only a few pumps, otherwise i often just go numb after awile. oral does even less for me. anal is the only way i reliably cum due to being able to fully feel the stimulation from it. just wondering if maybe youre in the same boat?